Wednesday, September 10, 2008

How to Save Your Marriage - How to Get Him/Her Back by gpower2

Want to know How to Save Your Marriage - How to Get Him/Her Back?, I bet you do! Below is an article that can help you address some issues at hand.

You can save your marriage. You want a permanent relationship, don't you? You and your spouse were in love when you first got married. Why can't you re-kindle that love now?

Remember when you fell in love and got married? How did you act toward each other? Repeat those little favors nowadays.

*Cook his/her favorite meal; have his paper in his favorite chair.

*Get his slippers ready for him to slip into.

*Bring him/her a cup of coffee while he/she is resting.

*Pick a flower and bring it to her.

*Help her with the dishes after a meal.

*Slip her some money and tell her to buy something special.

*Surprise him/her with a gift other than on his/her birthday.

It's those little things that show 'you care for her/him.'

More tips on How to Save Your Marriage - How to Get Him/Her Back:

If you have a flat tire on your car, you don't say, "I want to get rid of it." No, you fix the tire or have it fixed. Don't say anything about ending your relationship. Fix it.

If you are getting stale on your sex life, take time to be together, talk to each other. Reminisce about your young love. Go on a vacation. Maybe it will be just an overnight stay at a motel, but don't let your work bog you down. Companionship is important for a healthy marriage.

Start to save your marriage NOW. Don't look back and focus on the negative. Forget the bad times; don't remind your spouse of past faults.

Begin today to add sweetness to your married life. Be positive.

One woman told me her husband had a girlfriend. She said she could not forgive him. I asked her if he had girlfriends before they became engaged.

"How did you win him from the girls, then? Begin today, to win him away from that girlfriend." Show him you think he's the most important man in the world. Make yourself and your home life so attractive he will not want to stray.

Why do you fight? All couples have disagreements. Talk over the difference and you will discover the argument was minor. Learn to be silent when you differ.

Don't let your grievances linger; get it over with. Don't have a fight before other people or your children. Never hit your mate. Be honest and understanding.

Jealousy has lead many a couple to divorce court. Maria frets when John is 5 or 10 minutes late getting home from work. "Where have you been? Who were you with? Were you with some woman?" What can her husband do in 10 minutes with another woman? John accuses Maria of flirting with other men if she merely speaks to them.

Some husbands say, "I wouldn't want a woman who wasn't attractive to other men." I heard a wife say, "Just so he doesn't kiss her or spend any money on her." I think both are good ways of thinking toward one's spouse to keep out the envious attitudes.

Show your companion respect and affection. As one person said, "Be sure it is your wife/husband you're in love with, not yourself." So many married couples love themselves more than they love their partner.

Every day say to her or him, "I love you." And make sure it is absolutely sincere...

How to Save Your Marriage - How to Get Him/Her Back, it's not too late.


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