Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Five Steps to Get Ex Back and Save Marriage by Lisa Dosett

There are many things you can do to get your ex back and save your marriage. It depends on how serious the problem is, but you can often put relation saving techniques to work with only a bit effort. You will see an improvement in your marriage quickly.

First--Talk to one another: It doesn’t matter what you discuss. It can be something funny that happened, or a more important topic. Just remember, talking with one another is vital in marriage, like it is in all relationships. Open up to your partner with your thoughts and feelings, dreams and problems. You will profit, and so will your spouse.

Second--Go out on a Date: Obviously, make it a date with your spouse. It doesn’t need to be anything fancy. Just spend some quality time together and enjoy each other’s company. Remind yourself of before you were married, and you didn’t want to spend much time not being together? Rekindle that flame, and spice up your relationship.

Third--Do Something Nice for Your Spouse: Do a chore around the house that your partner usually does, or bring home a small present. Whip up a favorite meal. Give a hug, kiss, or smile (try giving all three!) You’ll be delighted at the response you’ll get in return. Keep it up and your spouse will even begin to give back the same.

Fourth--Be patient and Relax: Not everything can be corrected overnight. Things didn’t go bad in an hour or two, nor will they necessarily be made right in a day. Being impatient will never fix your marriage. So… RELAX.

Fifth--Focus on What You Want to Achieve: No matter how hopeless thing seem right now, stay positive and focused. Feeling hopeless or negative will never make things better.

These simple tips will help you get your ex back and save your marriage. Remember, you love one another, and you’ve made it this far. Marriage can be a wonderful thing, and yours can be saves. So, get started now and fix your relationship.

Did you know that 9 out of 10 make up attempts fail. Do you want to get back with your Ex? Are you the only one trying. Help is on the way. Visit RELATIONSHIP 911. Repair your relationship and win back the love of your life.


About the Author

Lisa Dosett is a counselor and relationship coach. She has helped hundreds of individuals and couples through her newsletters and website RELATIONSHIP 911

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