So you’ve had a breakup with your ex, and your hurt. You’re heartbroken an want to get him or her back as quickly as you can. We’ve all been there and it truly is painful. Before getting back with your ex, you must know of three huge mistakes you must avoid.
The following are three common mistakes that will drive your ex away and make repairing the relationship a lot harder. Do any of these and you’ll become less attractive in the eyes of your partner.
First of all, Don’t Beg. Think about how undesirable it is to your partner to see you beg. You may not know this, but your mate wants someone who’s strong and independent. This is even more true if you’re a guy. A lot of men think that their woman wants someone who can't live without her. Wrong. They want a man who is self confident enough that he would never beg or grovel. So do not beg.
Next, Don’t Send Presents to their Home or Office. This is just trying to buy them off. Yes, we see it in the movies. It doesn’t work in real life. The best you can hope for is that your ex will destroy your present, and send it back to you. People arn’t fooled by this type of cheap buy off, so don’t try it.
Last of all, Don’t Stalk. This dosen‘t just happen in the movies, but in real life too. People go a little crazy when they aren’t sure how to repair a relationship. Texting, calling, driving by their house… This willnot help you in getting back with your ex. At best, you’ll scare and anger your mate. At worst, you’ll get a jail sentence or restraining order.
Avoid these basic mistakes, and you’ll have started in the right direction in getting your ex back. Be patient and relax, and have a sensible plan. You CAN repair your relationship.
To your success as you win back the love of your life, -Lisa Dosett
PS: Do you have a plan. Do you want to get back with your Ex? Are you the only one trying. Help is on the way. Visit RELATIONSHIP 911. Repair your relationship and win back the love of your life.
About the Author
Lisa Dosett is a counselor and relationship coach. She has helped hundreds of individuals and couples through her newsletters and website RELATIONSHIP 911
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