Signs of Cheating Spouse - Warning Signs of a Breakup by John Morgan

If you suspect that your spouse may be cheating you are probably wondering what the signs that you might be right. You might also wonder what is the best way to get your spouse back or the best way to handle a breakup.

Statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct and 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. If you have suspicions, consider some of the following:

Have you noticed a:

~ Sudden increase in time away from home - this could be spending more time at work or spending time with the "boys/girls" on weekends.

~ Decreased sexual interest with you - has he/she consisently rejected your sexual advances? You need to distiquish his/her rejection from honestely being tired.

~ Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming - he/she could be thinking about her/him or a "good time" they had recently.

~ Cheating husband or wife is often “unavailable” while at work - maybe he/she is out to lunch with his/her lover or visiting with his/her lover.

~ Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work and wants to go alone - have you noticed an increase in this type of activity?

~ Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion - Does he/she consistently put you off?

~ Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone - this is a sign he/she does not want you to hear what is being said.

~ Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly - sending e-mails or instant messaging would be one way to stay in contact.

~ Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual - the cheating spouse wants to know when it will be safe to make contact and sneek away for a short visit.

~ Mileage on car is high yet he / she reports only short distance errands

~ Clothes smell of perfume or cologne - is the perfume or cologne one you recognize?

~ Cheating spouse gets his / her laundry done independently - could be trying to hide scents or lipstick stains.

~ Unexplained payments on bank statements - this is a sign of gift buying.

~ Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability - cash is less traceable and could be used to buy gifts or pay for a discreet dinner.

~ Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration - it may be wise to do some research to determine whose phone number is being called.

~ Cheating spouse now has a phone card but never used one before - one way of preventing calls from showing up on the phone bill.

~ Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse - gifts, lunch, dinner, hotels, or ....?

~ Cheating spouse has suspicious phone voice-mail messages

~ Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed

~ Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites

~ Cheating spouse begins to use new or free e-mail account - doesn't want you to see who he/she is e-mailing or what the content is.

~ Cheating spouse is suddenly deleting e-mail messages - trash the evidence.

~ You may also want to consider reviewing your spouse’s credit card bills.

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